Nothing makes me happier than connecting with my kids, and knowing that they feel special. Even now that they’re grown, I try to let them know how important they are to me. Here are some ideas you can try with your kids. They are some of the ideas from a list of 30 from parents.com.
- Go on a walk with just 1 child.
I can’t remember ever being alone with 1 of my parents. Recently, I spent a few days with my mom when my dad was in the hospital, and it was the closest I’ve ever felt to her.
Going on a walk together is such a great way to connect. Kids often open up on walks, and when you are willing to slow down and spend that time with your child, it sends a message that you value being with her, hearing her thoughts, and sharing with her.
I loved this article that helps you gauge how far your child can walk. And this article with suggestions for making walking a game if your child doesn’t want to walk. One of the games that was suggested that I loved was making the walk a treasure hunt. I love exploring the world with a toddler or preschooler – everything is so new and exciting!
- Print pictures of your kids and display them.
We all have so many pictures on our phone, and they’re so convenient to share with family and friends. But when the prints are displayed in your home, that sends a message of love and belonging to your child. Displaying photos of your child is a good way to boost his self-esteem.
- Share diaries, photos, and letters from when you were your child’s age.
This shows them that you can be vulnerable with them, you trust them, and are willing to share a part of yourself. It also gives the kids a sense of history, who they are, where the come from. - Let your child jump in the puddle – and join him!
Sometimes you just have to be a kid yourself, letting them lead the way, and enjoy life and each other. - When your child talks, really listen. If she has an idea for a game, or adventure, or food combination, give it a try!
Add you own ideas to the comments!
